Expression of love
“According to one Dr Gary Chapman, we hear expressions of love in different ways, and invariably, a husband and wife do not have the same love language. He listed five languages:
Words:These people would need to hear things like “I Love You”, “Thank You”, “Yes, dear, you are beautiful”, “Yes dear you are right and I am wrong” being spoken by their loved ones. They want feelings to be expressed in words. They also like to say such words to their loved ones.
Gifts:These people give (and expect) gifts as an expression of love. A key-chain when they go overseas, or a bouquet of flowers during birthdays or any thing else that says “I was thinking of you when I saw this”.
Quality Time: These folks see spending time together as an expression of love. For example, taking their wife when they go fishing, taking their husband when they go shopping…
Touch:These people need a hug or just holding each other’s hand as a way to say they love each other.
Acts of Service:To these people it’s like “Don’t talk about love, SHOW me”. For example, helping their wife hanging out the laundry or taking care of the children while she goes out with her friends, are examples of showing that they love their spouse. Also, cooking their husband’s favourite dishes eventhough cooking is not their forte, also shows the same thing and also vice versa.
It is important that you find out from your partner, which one is their love language. It could be all 5 or just one.
I remember when I first got married, I was quite dissappointed when my husband didn’t make my birthday such a big a deal because in my family, we make an effort to remember everyone’s birthday and send a card or give a gift to them. We spent the day with dinner (Quality Time), but I was expecting gifts ;-). After talking with him only did I learn that in his family, birthdays are not a big thing - he doesn’t even remember his siblings or parents’ birthdays and they never wish him on his either - so, he can’t relate to what I expected. That saved us a lot of hardship, I guess as now we understand each other better and know what each other need.Even simple things like him making sure he fills up my car’s tank when it’s almost empty because he knows that I HATE filling up gas by myself (Acts of Service) shows me that he loves me without having to shower me with gifts. So, find out from your partner how they express their love, and maybe you’ll find that he/she has been expressing them to you all this while and you never realize it.”
Original article:
http://liadevega.blogspot.com/2009/06/expression-of-love.html
This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody, and Nobody.
There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it.
Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it.
Somebody got angry about that because it was Everybody’s job.
Everybody thought Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn’t do it.
It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done.
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a man who doesn’t will find an excuse”
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I don’t believe in circumstances.
The people who get on in this world are the people who get up
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Youth for Human Rights International (YHRI) is an independent non-profit corporation headquartered in Los Angeles, with the purpose to educate people in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights so they become valuable advocates for tolerance and peace.
See the educational ad campaign that is changing the world.
Learn what everyone’s rights are through stunning visual stories. Youth for Human Rights International teamed up with the Church of Scientology International to create 30 powerful public service announcements to educate and inspire the world.
So, Watch Your Human Rights! Here they are:
Human Right #1
We Are All Born Free & Equal
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Human Right #2
Don’t Discriminate
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Human Right #3
The Right to Life
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Human Right #4
No Slavery
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Human Right #5
No Torture
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Human Right #6
You Have Rights No Matter Where You Go
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Human Right #7
We’re All Equal Before the Law
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Human Right #8
Your Human Rights Are Protected by Law
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Human Right #9
No Unfair Detainment
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Human Right #10
The Right to Trial
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Human Right #11
We’re Always Innocent Till Proven Guilty
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Human Right #12
The Right to Privacy
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Human Right #13
Freedom to Move
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Human Right #14
The Right to Seek a Safe Place to Live
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Human Right #15
Right to a Nationality
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Human Right #16
Marriage and Family
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Human Right #17
The Right to Your Own Things
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Human Right #18
Freedom of Thought
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Human Right #19
Freedom of Expression
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Human Right #20
The Right to Public Assembly
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Human Right #21
The Right to Democracy
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Human Right #22
Social Security
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Human Right #23
Workers’ Rights
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Human Right #24
The Right to Play
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Human Right #25
Food and Shelter for All
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Human Right #26
The Right to Education
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Human Right #27
Copyright
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Human Right #28
A Fair and Free World
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Human Right #29
Responsibility
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Human Right #30
No One Can Take Away Your Human Rights
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The Way to Happiness is the first moral code based wholly on common sense.
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“Only you can say where the road goes for one sets his goals for the hour, for the relationship, for the phase of life.
One can feel at times like a spinning leaf blown along a dirty street, one can feel like a grain of sand stuck in one place. But nobody has said that life was a calm and orderly thing: it isn’t. One isn’t a tattered leaf nor a grain of sand: one can, to a greater or lesser degree draw
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One can feel that things are such now that it is much too late to do anything, that one’s past road is so messed up that there is no chance of drawing a future one that will be any different: there is always a point on the road when one can map a new one. And try to follow it.
There is no person alive who cannot make a new beginning…”
– L. Ron Hubbard - The Way to Happiness.
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Percept #1. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
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Percept #2. BE TEMPERATE
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Percept #3. DON’T BE PROMISCUOUS
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Percept #4. LOVE AND HELP CHILDREN
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Percept #5. HONOR AND HELP YOUR PARENTS
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Percept #6. SET A GOOD EXAMPLE
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Percept #7. SEEK TO LIVE WITH THE TRUTH
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Percept #8. DO NOT MURDER
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Percept #9. DON’T DO ANYTHING ILLEGAL
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Percept #10. SUPPORT A GOVERNMENT DESIGNED AND RUN FOR ALL THE PEOPLE
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Percept #11. DO NOT HARM A PERSON OF GOOD WILL
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Percept #12. SAFEGUARD AND IMPROVE YOUR ENVIRONMENT
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Percept #13. DO NOT STEAL
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Percept #14. BE WORTHY OF TRUST
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Percept #15. FULFILL YOUR OBLIGATIONS
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Percept #16. BE INDUSTRIOUS
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Percept #17. BE COMPETENT
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Percept #18. RESPECT THE RELIGIOUS BELIEFS OF OTHERS
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Percept #19. TRY NOT TO DO THINGS TO OTHERS THAT
YOU WOULD NOT LIKE THEM TO DO TO YOU
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Percept #20. TRY TO TREAT OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WANT THEM TO TREAT YOU
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Percept #21. FLOURISH AND PROSPER
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